Miracle of Self Love
Part 1
How would you react if your relationship collapsed, dissolved, fell apart or ended? Would your way of dealing with it, conform to the ‘tried and tested ways” that society deems as the ‘correct process’, or would you like to move through this experience with a state of grace and ease? Could there possibly be a way to find forgiveness for another, process your own part, love yourself enough to look truthfully at your part in the break down , and then move into love, acceptance and respect within 72 hours. And no, this isn’t about falling into denial. .
What I have just been a witness to, a support of and a friend to, has shown me that we always, always, have power over our emotions and how we process anything in life, as long as we are prepared to see everything from our own heart. That is the home of truth.
Where we see ‘betrayal’……….then where is that in your own life, your own heart. Where you see judgement, then where do you judge yourself, where you see deception, then where in your life are you deceiving yourself? This is the depth of self-love. Not projecting the blame in uncomfortable or painful situations, not losing yourself in a ‘poor me’ or victim mentality, not wallowing in anger, retribution, revenge but owning your part in all things.
Witnessing the miracle of self- love in action, over a time frame of 72 hours has been one of the most astonishing, humbling and enlightening experiences of my life to date.
We all KNOW that ‘our thoughts create our world”, that we get what we ask for, that the law of attraction plays out in life, that what we believe will present itself somehow in life. Both in greatness and with pain and sadness. What I have observed is what we choose and how we truthfully want it to be, will happen as long as we are in a place of seeing who we are and asking the right questions of ourselves and then listening to the language of the heart. That voice of truth, silence and complete knowing.
The scenario of a person finding out that the relationship they were in has been betrayed, would send most people into a hurricane of anger, grief, sadness, blame and worse which could linger for months and in some cases, years. However, there is another way.
The person who showed me this incredible strength and the pure intention of moving through this scenario with grace and ease was able to do so within 72 hours. The shock was sudden, the anger was short lived, the sadness moved through, then the ownership of “what was my part in all this?”
There were “root cause” questions that had to be answered, there was an energy session to obtain clarity, there was the time and space to feel safe to allow the emotions, the energy in motion, to move through the physical body, there was the support to be heard, but there was never a ‘this was done to me” attitude, It was always, “what is my part in this story that is playing out?”
When the question was asked to the heart, ”can I forgive?”. the answer from the heart was ” no”, so the next question was, “then what is blocking that from happening?”
………..the answer…….”deception and lies”. The last question……”then where have I been telling lies and deceiving myself?”………..the answer came so clearly, and it was the depth of a truth that had been hidden under layers of conditioning, beliefs and family patterns.
I saw this transformation. The sadness that sat heavily around this person had dissolved and what shone was this radiance of freedom, liberation, open heartedness and enormous self-respect and self-love. That miracle happened.
Wayne dyer says……’A miracle is a change in perception”…….simple, easy, graceful and entirely up to each of us. Our thoughts do create our world.
We choose the journey towards our destiny, we live our lives through every thought that we engage in, and that includes fear based ones. So nobody EVER does anything to us. We do it to ourselves.
Namaste
